I love your advice and fashion spill. I have a relationship question for you, maybe you can help.My husband has chatted with his ex-girlfriend and lied about it to me It was when his email was open, I noticed her emailaddress and it wasn\’t there before. Should I trust him? Do you think this is okay that he did this? Do you think she still has feelings for him? I think she contacted him. Why would she contact him?Super confused and hurt.
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Your question is very personal, and nobody can say what you should do or not. Talk with your husband, tell him how you feel and decide by yourself if you can forgive him or not.
Think about how many years you are married, all the good things you did together; list the reasons why you marry each other. Use this moment to rethink your marriage. Maybe you guys are not expending to much romantic time together as you did in the past.
If you truly love your husband, you may forgive him. If you are not in love anymore and think you can’t trust him anymore, you may divorce, but if you have kids you have to think about what is the best for them too.
When a boyfriend cheats on us, it is one thing to end the relationship, when it is our husband, it is another situation. The best thing to do is to talk with your husband about why he did it. It’s not ok for him to cheat on you. If he cheated on you he did it because: he has feelings for his ex-girlfriend, he has too much free time to meet someone, you and him are not so connected as you think, he is bored, he is looking for something that he doesn’t have in the marriage anymore. If he had the chance of to meet his ex-girlfriend, how he did it, while he was traveling, during his job hours? Try to know why and how he did it, and make more presence in his life, make sure you know where he is, what time he will come home, what time he left his job… if he knows you are watching him, he will be more careful with his action.
Just because he keeps friendship with ex-girlfriend doesn’t mean that he is cheating on you. It is normal to keep in touch with someone who is part of his past.
But as his wife, he has to put you in the first place, if you don’t feel comfortable with him being friend with his ex-girlfriend than he has to end this friendship and put your relationship in the first place, respecting your feelings first.
Good luck.